How To Tell If You’re Boring
December 29, 2009 at 10:00 am by Lindsey Chen - (1) Comment
You know when you’re talking to that hot girl at the bar and after you buy her a drink, she pulls the link.. “Uh… I have to go to the bathroom – I’ll be right back.” (But she won’t) That’s her subtle way of saying, you are boring and/or wasting my time and I don’t want to talk to you anymore. So if you are that guy, you may want to take some hints below:
1. “Oh really?”
The dreaded “oh really”! If the person you are taking to keeps saying this over and over, it means you are boring.
2. Not being interrupted
If you are droning on and on and no one else is attempting to interrupt, it means you are boring. Interruption actually signals interest in the conversation, so no interruptions means someone is being bored out of their mind.
3. Look out for body position.
If someone is interested in what you are saying, they will usually turn to face you. Conversely, if the person you are talking to is partially turned away, chances are they are not engaged in what you are saying.
Are you bored?
Chances are if you’re bored with someone’s conversation, they are bored with yours as well. Time to find someone else to talk to.
(via Just a Guy Thing)
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